Up now on my eBay! NANA v. 3 Japanese import manga from 2001! Ai Yazawa’s classic fashionable rock’n’roll drama, from the creator of Paradise Kiss and Gokinjyo Monogatari! Also up for grabs: my superheroine comic collection (70’s-80’s stuff), random Radio Comix books and various indie comics! My house is super small, and I am still selling off thirty years’ worth of collectibles to raise money for ongoing back taxes & various upcoming large expenses, so every little bit helps. Thanks for looking & sharing!
the normalization of jealousy as an indicator of love
the idea that a sufficiently intense love is enough to overcome any practical incompatibilities
the idea that you should meet your partner’s every need, and if you don’t, either you’re inadequate or they’re too needy
the idea that a sufficiently intense love should cause you to cease to be attracted to anyone else
the idea that commitment is synonymous with exclusivity
the idea that marriage and children are the only valid teleological justifications for being committed to a relationship
the idea that your insecurities are always your partner’s responsibility to tip-toe around and never your responsibility to work on
the idea that your value to a partner is directly proportional to the amount of time and energy they spend on you, and it is in zero-sum competition with everything else they value in life
the idea that being of value to a partner should always make up a large chunk of how you value yourself
toxic monogmy culture aint real that’s legit just being a shit person + misogyny and patriarchal bullshit and polyam people are about that too shut it
op is a straight white dude with a violent & degrading porn blog i cannot believe any of you goofballs took this mess seriously